Sunday, July 13, 2008

Is life all about boyfriends?

Is life all about boyfriends?can girls live without them??hmmm..i'm very speechless when i see some of my friends get caught up with all these *sweet nothings* from guys....i dont understand why..the thing is when girls start to have boyfriends,their whole lifestyle change to suit that particular person,they compromise just to please him,skipped meals for him and ignore their own girlfriend advice..ppl say love is blind..do you really think true love is blind?can it be so blind that girls are so easily get caught in it?if this is the case then it is not true love bcause. true love is this:

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1corinthians13)

so,ask your boyfriends and yourself can both of you fulfill what is written above?if the answer is no means its not true love anymore.of course none can find true love in this world.if you think you have found so called true love pls wake up!don stay in dreamland.
I'm not against having boyfriends..just that i cant stand it when girls no longer have their own principles after getting involved in a relationship.what is so great in a guy that he can change everything about you and dump you when he is bored?girls are loyal and faithful but too bad guys are not.that is why there are so many heartbroken girls..maybe some ppl can say "its only for experience" but why wud you want such kind of experience?is it worth to have an experience of getting yourself being hurt?think of it life is definitely more than that!
There's only one reason ppl are going one boy after another:it is because that they have this longing in their hearts that is not filled..that longing to be loved,accepted and wanted..and tis longing can never be filled with the love of the world.Only the love of God can feel the longing in our hearts..some ppl might not understand what i'm talking about but i hope Christians who are reading this are able to understand.
We have not much time left on this earth..so why not spend every minute we have for eternity? and not for this world that is going to pass away.

2 Peter 3:10,11
But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything done in it will be laid bare.
Since everything will be destroyed in this way, what kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives.


Well, no offence..i'm not trying to be sarcastic or anything..this is just my opinion..be blessed.

3 comments:

Seer said...

why deleted my comments? wrong teaching girl/boy... but i assume that u r a gal since u r such a weirdo.

Joanne said...

uh hmm...i dunno why u r so offended with my post..its just my opninion..if u think u can find true love in this world,then go ahead.yes,God made adam and eve bone to bone flesh to flesh..i did not said its wrong to have a boy-girl relationship but we must be wise to choose the right partner..think bout it.nowadays when guys want to get a girl,dont' they use all the sweet words to melt a girl's heart?and when they get bored,the sweet words becomes nothing..thats why its called sweet nothings.BUT.i'm not saying ALL guys are like that.
If u cant accept wat i said,then its fine..different ppl have different opinion.

Seer said...

What a pity!